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September 2002
When I
was a kid car trips were how other families spent their summer
vacations. They'd pack into their faux wood-paneled station wagons,
armed with Mad Libs and coolers of bologna sandwiches and they'd
head West to the Grand Canyon or South to see the grandparents.
Since
I'd never experienced it, this kind of traveling was practically
mythic in my mind. I envisioned lots of rest stops filled with
cold Cokes from vending machines and cheesy photos taken in front
of state lines. I saw lots of dumb souvenirs purchased at road
side stands, short cuts that would lead to stories told over Thanksgiving
turkey for years and picnics at rest stops where everyone would
take turns walking the dog. Instead I was stuck with the cramped
cabin of my dad's Cessna, peering down as the country as we literally
flew by it all. No photos in front of the World's Biggest Ball
of Yarn and there was certainly no room for the dogs. We only
stopped for av gas and warm sodas from some guy's hanger in the
middle of Arkansas.
Because
I'd never traveled any considerable distance by car, I looked
forward to the day when I'd be able to embark on my first car
trip. That desire was firmly squelched the summer my mother and
I decided to drive to Ohio for our annual trip rather than shell
out the bucks for a commercial flight. It was squashed even further
when my dad and I made the same trip only a few months later to
visit my brother for the holidays.
But I'd
still never experienced the fantastic Road Trip that one is supposed
to take as a rite of passage with friends. There are only a few
acceptable reasons for such a trip: Go to California for spring
break to get laid or pile in a van to visit another campus and
wreck havoc.
My dormmate
Mary and I chose the latter.
Spring
semester, over some February weekend, we decided to make the five
hour drive from Oxford, Ohio to Ann Arbor, Michigan to visit friends
at the home of the Maize & Gold. And while that might not
be as much as an endeavor as Ithaca to Austin, for a girl who'd
never even driven herself to downtown Houston, it was an undertaking.
On Friday
afternoon we climbed into my Acura and drove out of town. We stopped
just south of Dayton at one of the million McDonald's along the
way and got both Diet Cokes and chocolate shakes. I said little
prayers that my nine-year-old car would survive the trip and wouldn't
leave us stranded outside Toledo.
Mary drew
little pictures with the washable Crayola markers that she'd packed
and we talked about boys, what dorms our friends lived in at UofM
and what we were going to do in Ann Arbor. We counted the corn
fields and bounced in our seats, anxious to get there. In her
boredom, she reached up and drew a smiley face on the inside of
my sunroof.
We crossed
the state line a little after dark and pulled into town a few
hours later. I dropped Mary off at her friends' dorm before heading
over to the other side of campus where my ex-roommate, Cyndi,
now lived.
The weekend
was a blur of dancing and partying, giant dorms that I was totally
unused to, walks around campus and gawking at the activities of
Hash Bash. On Sunday morning Mary met me in the lobby of Cyndi's
dorm and we trudged back out to my car, our pillows in hand, for
the drive back to Oxford. Back to home.
I've taken
other road trips since then, the most notable ones took me either
through or to Atlanta, and while they were both fun in their own
ways, that trip up I-75 in the winter of 1995 will always stand
out.
Mostly
because I had that stupid orange smiley face on my sunroof for
years.
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